I'm confused, and want to disagree with you on where your thermostat is, I recently replaced the thermostat on my 1985 crx engine, and from what I can tell you have
a thermostat on the output end of the water pump, right behind/under the distributer, I'm pretty sure this is how my newer 1992 civic is as well, and because heat rises, any warm coolant that is in the heat and sloshes thru the radiator hose to the top of the radiator isn't likely to flow down, of course a way to check this is to feel the that top radiator hose, to see if it's warm befor the engine warms up, so this is not something that I would worry about, I had/have (rear ended at 40mph) the same car as you only the 1984 version of it, and it took a long time to warm up as well, I figured it was because the engine was reasonably efficient, if you wanted to of course, I'm sure you could fit a crx hf radiator in there, it's going to be nearly half the size, and people seem to like them while racing, but if your thermostat is good then I wouldn't worry about it.